A common concern for parents is the lack of their child’s ability to fall asleep and/or stay asleep. According to research by the National Sleep Foundation, sleep deprivation in children results in:
- Poor concentration leading to a fall in academic performance.
- Chronically sleep-deprived teenagers become more impulsive leading to risk-taking behaviours.
- Sleeping problems increase the risk of disorders such as depression and attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD).
- Children start getting negative feelings which may lead to depression.
How Much Sleep Does a Child Need?
A study showed that an increase in sleep time by approximately 30 minutes every night for 5 nights had an immediate impact on emotional ability and restless-impulsive behaviors of children in school. (1)
With this in mind, how can you, as a parent, support your child in getting the right amount of sleep each night?
Top Sleep Tips
- Bed Time: Have a set bed time or wind-down time to bed time. Set patterns trigger the habit of sleep.
- Mindful Breathing: The breathing changes energy from tension to relaxation. It does this by turning off our sympathetic nervous system that produces stress hormones. This then turns on our parasympathetic nervous system, which turns off the stress hormone pump. So, deep breathing relaxes the body, decreases the heart rates lowers the blood pressure and creates the feeling of calmness.
- Belly Breathing– Sit or lay comfortably. Place your hands on your belly and take a deep breath in for four counts, blowing up your belly like a balloon. Hold the breath for one count and then slowly exhale for five counts, deflating the balloon in your belly. Continue to do this for a few minutes until you see or feel calm and relaxed. (With young children, have them place their soft cuddly animal on their tummies to do this exercise.)
- Mindful Gratitude– Once the child has relaxed with the mindful breathing, have them think of one thing they are thankful for or made them happy during the day. Have them imagine what it felt like, encouraging them to close their eyes and see it in their mind and smile.
- Meditation Music: Sometimes silence is worse than noise and can keep children awake. Playing soft meditation music can help children relax as they listen and drift off to sleep. (You can find several free options on my YouTube channel that can be found here.)
- BEDTIME – GUIDED MEDITATIONS for Children: Turn off the lights and play one of the following guided meditations (or find your own in my library of sleep meditations found here.)
- Childrens’ Guided Meditation for Deep Sleep!- (20 minutes) https://youtu.be/i6HgGCZmiI8
- Guided Meditation for Sleep… Floating Amongst the Stars- (1 hour)- https://youtu.be/N4qCFFBrrgk
- Children’s “SWEET DREAMS” Guided Meditation!- (25 minutes)- https://youtu.be/Vg3xQqLZxbU
- Mystery Island: An Adventure Story for Children for Sleep & Relaxing- (25 minutes)- https://youtu.be/EXGshn1Sd40
- Childrens Space Adventure – A Bedtime Story for Sweet Dreams with Jason Stephenson (10 minutes) – https://youtu.be/d5Xppqi6azY?list=PLwRp13WDIrMOSH7pzcrCME5e9TBaJ3wGs
If, after a period of time, this does not help your child drift off into a peaceful sleep and get the recommended sleep time, I suggest visiting your family doctor for support and advice.